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Monday, 03 April 2017 01:58

What are some tips and tricks for removing the word “um,” when speaking publicly?

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Eliminate Filler WordsSome of the previous answers elude to Toastmasters being a good source of skill-building techniques to remove ums from your public speaking.

At my club, Kelowna Flying Solo Toastmasters, we start every member off by assigning them the role of Ah Counter. While speaking is an important skill to learn, listening is equally important. Here is the description of the Ah Counter from our form:

Helping members off their crutches

The purpose of the Ah-Counter is to note any word or sound used as a crutch by anyone who speaks during the meeting. Words may be inappropriate interjections, such as and, well, but, so and you know. Sounds may be ah, um or er. You should also note when a speaker repeats a word or phrase such as “I, I” or “This means, this means.” These words and sounds can be annoying to listeners. The Ah-Counter role is an excellent opportunity to practice your listening skills.

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After you have taken the role on a few times, it becomes difficult to listen to television & radio announcers without counting every ah, er or um that they utter. Many public speeches we hear on television from our politicians may seem flawless. The teleprompter may be at play here as when they are speaking impromptly, they have lots of filler words.

Once you become more attuned to listening for them in other speakers, you readily become aware of them in your own speaking. I often see people chuckling when they catch themselves doing it when they are delivering a report at the club. This is one of the first steps in reducing your own verbal fillers.

I find that many people use ahs and other filler words when they are speaking extemporaneously. As mentioned previously, this is likely due to a person’s mouth speaking faster than their mind. If you examine that concept closely, it is likely that isn’t really possible. Your mouth is attached to your mind, not the other way round. The speaker is just speaking too fast for their level. Its like the concept of driving faster than your headlights at nighttime.

While filler words tend to annoy me, there seems to be a trend where stand-up comics seem to be actually using filler words to add to their content. Sometimes it works. Sometimes you have to wonder what they were thinking when they made a decision to communicate in that matter. I find it more annoying than entertaining.

In summation, most Toastmasters clubs will help you eliminate filler words from your speeches as well as help you hone valuable other communication skills.

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